Before we were married, my wife Carrie once asked me, “Why are you so grumpy all of the time?” I honestly had no idea why. I had a pessimistic view of the world and thought there was nothing right with the world that couldn’t be broken by what was wrong with the world.
One day not too long after, Carrie gave me the book Tuesdays with Morrie, by Mitch Albom, and said that I needed to read it.
It’s hard to explain what happened to me as I read and finished the book because it completely changed my outlook on life. Here was this beautiful person who was lying on his deathbed but who was also so grateful for everything he had throughout his life. It wasn’t the first time I had heard the life lessons Morrie’s shared – to live life to the fullest, to be grateful, and to love. But for some reason, his story connected with me and changed me for the better.
Most of us wake up either with a smile or ready to complain about the world around us. Both responses are habits of mind that have become ingrained inside of us over time.
If you stop and thought about the default responses you have to the predictable events of a typical day – the alarm going off in the morning, traffic, kids not following expectations – which side of the ledger would you see most of your responses? On the positive side or on the negative side?
What does your balance sheet look like at the end of the day?
The bad news is that habits are hard to break.
The good news is that new habits can be made as long as we are committed to changing and forming habits that help our default responses be more positive ones. It takes self-reflection, commitment, and finding people in our lives who will hold us accountable maintaining our goal to change.
I like this reflection sheet from our R-Factor training:
What should we stop doing and what should we start doing to help make our lives more positive and happy?
Commit to putting more marks on the positive side of your daily balance sheet.
And read Tuesdays with Morrie. It’s worth every minute!
Have a GREAT week!
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3 – School Community Meeting – “Adjust and Adapt”, 10:45am; Board of Education meeting at ADE, 7pm
4 – BIT meeting, 8am; 5th grade ELA, Part 1; Staff Breakfast, 8:20 am
5 – IMPACT PD (K-2 Teachers); 6th grade transition meeting, 2:00 – 4:00; 5th grade ELA, Part 2; Newsletter items due; Get Fit Girls, 3:35 – 4:30
6 – Admin meeting (Herb, AM); Blue Jackets Choir performance (before game); 3rd & 4th grade ELA, Part 1; Garden/Compost Club, 3:35 – 4:30
7 – 3rd & 4th grade ELA, Part 2
10 – Preschool IEP meetings (Herb/Brian H), throughout day; PTO Meeting, 7:00
12 – Staff Meeting – Progress check on Data Team goal; KG ELL testing; Urban Zen, 3:45 – 4:45; Get Fit Girls, 3:35 – 4:30; Lambright’s Parent Ed Camp, 6:30 – 7:30; Full moon!
13 – Mental Health and Wellness Team meeting, 8am; One2One Principal meeting, 10am; KG fieldtrip to Franklin Park Conservatory; 2nd grade Wax Museum; Last day to submit requisitions; Staff Luncheon; Garden/Compost Club, 3:35 – 4:30
14 – Holiday, No School
17 – 4th grade fieldtrip to Supreme Court & Statehouse
18 – 5th grade Math test
19 – SLSP fieldtrip to Steak N Shake; 4th grade Math Test; Get Fit Girls, 3:35 – 4:30
20 – Principal’s meeting (Herb, AM); 3rd grade Math Test; Garden/Compost Club, 3:35 – 4:30
21 – 2nd grade fieldtrip to Art Museum
22- Hilliard’s Earth Day Celebration
24-28 – Book Fair, open til 5:00 on 25th; open during Art Show on 27th; open 8:00-10:00 am on 28th
24 – Gifted model parent meeting, 6:00; Vidic’s Medicine Safety Presentation (5th=1:30 – 2:15, 4th=2:15-3:00)
25 – 5th grade Science Test; 4th grade Social Studies Test; Vidic’s Medicine Safety Presentation (2nd=1:00-1:35; 3rd=1:40-2:15; 1st=2:20-2:55)
26 – Staff meeting, 3:40; Walk-A-Thon, 9:00 am – 2:30 pm; Get Fit Girls, 3:35 – 4:30
27 – Elementary Transfer meeting, 8:30; Art Show, times TBD
28 – BAC meeting, 8:00; fruit & veggies (grapes & snow peas); clean office lounge