Last week, I wrote about “the edge” — The point where you can either give up or push forward; the point where you realize that failure is likely to happen.
This week, I had the opportunity to hear a Brian Kight talk about Building Skill at the last Community R-Factor meeting.
“Growth mindset”, “the power of ‘yet'” — We’ve heard time and time again that being willing to have an open mind to new situations makes us learners who are eager to want to learn something new and to build new skill.
Brian Kight’s focus for the evening went deeper than this though. Kight’s message emphasized the mechanics and the emotion it takes to move from being Automatic (Good) to Exceptional (Elite).
Here’s a summary of Kight’s message on the difference between Good and Elite:
Good = Comfortable, automatic, where 80% of people perform.
Elite = Exceptional, learning mindset, where few people choose to perform because they think it’s too much work or too risky.
Think back to the first two years of your teaching career (or to the first teaching experience you had if this is your first year). Think about the excitement you felt each day because everything was new and how that excitement is different now that you have experience. I know that we all still get excited about teaching, but the excitement is for different reasons. As experienced educators, we spend more time excited about a favorite unit or lesson and less time excited about learning something new.
See the difference? With experience, we exchange the excitement of learning something new and trying something that puts us way out of our comfort zone for the comfort of the familiar.
Which of the two descriptions match the energy level and curiosity need to be “Elite”? Which description match what is needed to be “Good”, comfortable and automatic?
This is why most of us, whether it has to do with our job or something that has to do with our personal life, resist change. Resisting change is a reaction to having to walk away from the experience we have built over the years. That experience took hard work and, over time, has granted us comfort.
Seeking comfort is not necessarily bad. It could be argued that it’s human nature to seek comfort.
However, we also need to recognize that the world is ever-changing and because of that we must adjust.
Go back to the feeling of resistance to change. Let’s say you agree that this resistance is a natural reaction — You’ve worked hard to build the skill that has given you the experience necessary to be successful.
How do you convince yourself to accept that our world changes whether we like it or not and that we too must change?
When I think about how I would respond to this question, I think about what it was I did to get where I am now.
What did it take for me to reach my goal of being a building principal?
What has been needed of me to perform as a building principal?
So, what is it exactly that I would be giving up if I embrace change?
I’ve realized that “change” is just an opportunity to learn something new using skills that I have gained through experience.
This not only provides me with comfort, but it helps me take on new challenges.
This is how I need to approach work that is in the “Gap” — The space between Good and Elite. I need to have a Beginner’s Mindset and view the world and work I do with fresh eyes and with excitement.
We have very little to lose staying “Good” at what we do; we also have very little else to gain.
Let’s commit to being Exceptional at a skill or habit that directly impacts the work we do for kids. Let’s get great at change and work hard in the Gap between Good and Elite!
Have a GREAT week!
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24 – Design Team Meeting, 8am at DCR; State of Schools (Darby), 6-9PM
25 – 3rd Grade Data Team day; FIRE DRILL, 2:15pm; State of Schools (Davidson), 6-9PM
26 – 4th Grade Data Team day; ADDC STAFF MEETING, 3:45 at ADEState of Schools (Bradley), 6-9PM
28 – BAC, 8am if needed. Please send your agenda items to me or Karen O by Wednesday!
31 – Hilliard Trick or Treat night
1 – Building Improvement Team meeting, 8am; Kindergarten Data Team day; RIMP Deadline; SLO Deadline
2 – 1st Grade Data Team day
3 – 2nd Grade Data Team day
5 – Lit Drop, pick-up lit at Heritage MS between 9-11am
7 – 2nd Grade Culture Show, 2pm
9 – ADE Staff Meeting, 8am
10 – Mental Health and Wellness Team meeting, 8am; 5th Grade Data Team day
16 – Spec Ed Team meeting, 12 noon; RTI Team meeting, 3:30pm
22 – 5th Grade Talent Show, 1:20-2:20
23-25 — Thanksgiving holiday
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IMPORTANT HCSD DATES
Board of Education Meeting – October 24, 7pm at Darby High School
Community Information Meeting – October 27, 7:30pm at Tharp
Community Information Meeting – November 7, 7:30pm at Station